Archive | March 2014

Do I measure up?

We are right smack in the middle of Lent! Some of us trudging along longing for this time in the dessert to be behind us so we can go back to a life of indulgence, others joyfully gathering the spiritual consolations along the path to Calvary.

The Daughters of the King have been fleshing out some of the hangups that we have that weigh us down. One of those hangups we found to be the way we compare ourselves with others, measuring our worth by other peoples standards. It is a fruitless and often time frustrating effort for there will always be someone more intelligent, beautiful, successful or whatever qualities we aspire to attain out there. God made each one unique and for a special purpose that only the individual can fulfill. When we start comparing, we begin to wish we had a life different from what God planned for us….We begin to undermine his purpose and will for us and that takes us to a path of dissatisfaction, hopelessness… Ann Voskamp in her article says “Walk through life with a measuring stick – and your eyes get so small you never see God.” Measuring sticks always end up beating up our soul. Instead with the help of God we can see in others the unique gift that they are from God and learn to see in ourselves the gifts that God has lavished upon us.

So sisters, whenever you catch yourself comparing to someone else remember that you are wonderfully made see Psalm 139:13-14, comparing does nothing for us (2 Corinthians 10:12) instead, let us build each other up as God asks of us in  Ephesians 4:29 and 1 Thessalonians 5:11.

Love and God’s blessings as we joyfully walk the way of of the Cross!




Third Sunday Of Lent

Greetings on this third Sunday of Lent! Where are you on this Lenten journey? Remember it’s a time to put those things that come between us and a deeper intimacy with Christ aside. What is keeping you from His love? Do you know? If you do, are you willing to give it up? Lent is also about what we decisively choose to do to nourish our relationship with Christ. Like all relationships,  withers from lack of tender loving care.  Is your relationship with Christ top priority in your life? These are the things we ought to dwell on during this time of Lent…

During our last meeting, we celebrated St. Patrick’s day, each of us had something green on and shared some delightful cookies. We talked about our Lenten journey, each of us in a unique relationship with Christ. We revisited a challenge from a few meetings ago to write the lyrics of one of our favorite songs. We read the lyrics and played each song during our meeting. While the songs we chose were altogether decent, we discovered that to some extent, the lyrics either seemed a little dumb but playful (The best song ever by One Direction) or a bit scandalous depending on who is interpreting it (Butterflies by Michael Jackson), but we also found in some that love is worth forgiving for (In his eye Jekyll and Hyde musical) and affirmation in married love (I feel wonderful tonight by Eric Clapton). We ended the evening listening to Hosea (Come back to me, With all your heart It is worth listening to over and over again during Lent. Christ calls us to come back to him without fear to live in deeper intimacy with him….

I pray that you harden not your heart today if you hear Him call you….

The music of your heart

As we start Lent, I wanted to provide an update on Daughter’s of the King.

February saw us exploring friendship, the different types of relationships and what it means to be a true friend. Our ladies have learnt friendships come in different forms and each one special and unique.

We also learnt how to find refuge in God’s words expecially during those moments when we feel alone, afraid or uncertain. Each daughter of the King had to memorize a Bible verse that speaks to her heart.

We were reminded to guard our hearts particularly from music with lyrics that tear us down instead of lifting us up. “What we listen to will control what we think” says Sheri Rose in the chapter 28 of the “His Princess Girl Talk with God” Devotional that we have been exploring the past number of months. We were challenged to list our favorite songs and write down the lyrics and if we found it to be questionable to make a commitment to stop listening to it. The girls are considering listening to KLOVE radio station for all of Lent. Go to to find out what channel KLOVE is in your area. 

We had a great time playing musical chairs, dancing to “In My Eyes” by The Afters.

On the service part, our ladies helped with photo session sign ups for the Church directory.

We ended the month of February with a movie on the life of St. Maria Goretti. 

As we begin this season of Lent, we pray that each one of us will be drawn into greater intimacy with Christ by participating in the Sacraments of the Chuch even more deeply.

Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is gracious, if there is any excellence and if there is anything worthy of praise, think about these things.
—Philippians 4:8